Monday, April 22, 2013

April 22, 2013

If you are knocked down 7 times get back up 8.
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Maren Hale <maren.hale@myldsmail.net> Mon, Apr 22, 2013 at 3:08 PM

To: The Hale Family <thehalefamily10@gmail.com>

Hey family!

I loved reading all the letters today. One from the family, one from Jake and one from Steph. I miss you all so much but your letters sustain me from week to week. I am so proud of Jacob, he already sounds like a missionary. :D

This week has been a little crazy. I mean trying to add a third companion to a well established companionship was/is hard but its working. I know that God has put her here with us, with me for a very specific purpose. Her name is sister Peacock by the way. She is from Roy UT and is 22 years old. She reminds me a lot of Tania. As I watched her go through this first week I remembered what I felt my first week here. I remember being so frustrated because the picture of what missionary work should be in my head was not matching up with the reality all around me. Its a hard knowledge to come to. 

Anyways. Life is good. We should be getting a new apartment soon. There will be a new senior couple moving in at the end of April and we'll be out. They apparently already have it chosen out but they wont tell us where it is. I am kinda scared. What if its ghetto? Haha. No, I am sure they have found a really nice one for us. 

So this week we had an awesome culture night. Over 150 people came to our small chapel! As missionaries we danced to the "hoe down throw down" by miley cyrus... yeah... it was fun... we didn't look to good but i think people had a good laugh. Here are some pictures :D I wish more people had come to church as a result but alas... no... we will keep working on it though. Planting seeds. That is what we are doing.

On Saturday night we had an awesome lesson with Santos. If you remember he is the one that we feel is very precious to our Father in Heaven. If we could just get him to come to church I think he would be baptized next week. Its so hard to teach him because he's pretty hard to understand (even the native members we bring struggle) but there is something really cool about the Spanish Language and the Holy Ghost... something that my trainer taught me. You can always be 100% certain that even if you don't understand all the words you will understand what you need to understand in order to teach by the spirit. Pretty cool huh? I see it happen every single time we teach him. In this lesson in particular we all felt the spirit very strongly. A miracle is coming his way. Any prayers on his behalf would be much appreciated.

On Sunday night we had 3 hours of an empty schedule... every missionaries worst nightmare. So we tried to stop by a less-actives home but no one was there. So what did we do? We prayed. Almost as soon as I started to pray the name of one of our investigators came to mind. Her name is Olga. So we drove to her house and she had just barely gotten home from grocery shopping and had some time so we could teach her. I love it when the spirit lets us know where we need to be. Its so much more productive than trying to guess. We got to teach her an awesome lesson and again, felt the spirit. She set up a return appointment with her for tonight and when we were planning for her we all felt like we needed to switch topics from the gospel of Christ to the plan of salvation. Its just such a testament to me that our Father in Heaven is very aware of each one of his children.

Family I am sorry. Three people and one computer doesn't leave much time for each of us to email. Hopefully next week we will get library cards and go to the library so it doesn't take as long and we all have tons of time.

Tania, What is going on with you? Mom told us about the boys but what it new in your life?

Nathan, good to hear that you are getting into a little mischief... haha. 

Caleb, I am so so so so so so so SO proud of you! I wish I had had the guts to get into choir in school. You are going to be awesome!

Isaac, I am so proud of you and your mad art skills. Will you scan/take a picture of your winning piece and send it to me? 

Simeon, you spent three hours sanding your pine wood derby car? that is dedication! I think I probably would have given it 15 minutes and then given up. 

Mom and Dad. Thank you so much for everything. I am so grateful for the parents you are and for the sacrifices that you are making and have always made for us kids. I realize more and more every day how lucky I was/am to have grown up in the home that I did. I love you!

So I want to leave you with some thoughts from my personal study this week. I was readying in the last chapter of Mormon and 2 things jumped out at me. #1 in vs 3 and 4 Moroni is talking about how we are going to end up where we are the most comfortable. Everyone is always so focused on the actions the works of this life when really that doesn't matter nearly as much as who we are. (Kinda like the 4th missionary). It just so happens that our actions usually coincide with who we are. #2 Moroni is talking about how God is a God of miracles, always has been and always will be. As I was reading through those verses I had the question of what that means for our day. I know that there are still healing's of the sick but it seems like less dramatic than in that day... the very next verse talks about how if we ask we will receive. It is just as miraculous for the blind to receive sight as it is for us to receive an answer to our questions by the Holy Ghost. Its a Miracle. Do we always recognize it as such? 

I am so grateful for everything that I am learning while on a mission. It feels like its only been a few weeks and forever at the same time but I am loving every minute. 

I love you!

-Hermana Maren Hale

April 22, 2013 Stephanie



April 22, 2013

Dear family!!!!

I can’t tell you how much I needed your letters this week.  Mom thank you for your prayers. They were felt and I literally felt uplifted and strengthened when I didn't have anything left.  This week has been a little harder than others. We are teaching a family with 3 kids and their parents. The father and son were baptized this last week and we are working with the mom and the kids. But, wow family, I have never seen a family with more problems and well I am growing in my gratitude and love for my own family. The kids are, well, terrors and they run around and through things, brake glass, hit their brothers and sisters with brooms, and literally hit and punch you for no reason whatsoever. Ha, my patients has been tried this week. What is hard is that the parents do not correct or discipline.  I am shocked at how the mom and dad treat each other.  I have learned how I do not want my family ......  It’s been hard because I know that the gospel is what they need but we have not had a chance to actually teach them because every time we get there the kids are off the wall, the spirit is gone, and the house is a mess and we help clean and try to keep the kids from burning down the house. I am at a loss to know how to help...  God is helping and I am learning....
Dad and mom thank you for what you wrote. Dad thank you for the analogy of the net I loved it and I needed to hear it.  I am realizing that my net has a couple of holes that I need to mend so that the Lord can use me better and really trust me with his children...  This week has been hard just because well I have never had to work harder to find investigator to teach......  My area, sorry, it’s a city called Santa Tecla. That is the city I am working in. The colonial Quesaltepeque. The ward is called Girasoles (hah sunflowers in Spanish. My favorite flower) my area is so small that I feel I am walking the same streets 3 to 4 times a day. The members are great to help and everything but the references they give, the people don’t want to hear the gospel. We are trying to find our own investigators but like I said it never has been harder. I am living in a richer part of El Salvador right now and well, hah,  I miss my humble poor people that live day to day on the grace and blessings of God. .... Why are we as humans so prideful and trust in our own ability so much? The people here don’t see the need for God or they already have their church and are good. I have never had to talk to people like this and truly sometimes I am at a loss of what to say. I know they need what I have and that it will bless their lives but to help them see that is another matter. There are some people that have the most random and strange ideas here, ha. But I am realizing that I need to be more prepared to open my mouth on the street and in the bus and everywhere. I need to learn to pay closer attention to the spirit so that I can know what to say and the moment to say it. God is preparing people to hear me but if I never open my mouth I will never find them. 
It’s been a hard week one of humbling and lots of prayers. Today we also have interviews with the President and I have a feeling I will learn lots and will I have lots to change.  Sometimes change can hurt but it’s for the best and I know God will bless so I would appreciate your prayers.....and know that I do feel them.   Prayer changes things!!! I have seen it.
We are moving houses this next week!!! It’s exciting and kind of sad we don't want to leave the house we are in. It’s really fun to live with four girls in one house. We also have changes this week.... weird I know we had changes like 3 weeks ago but I think the President is getting ready for the mission division this upcoming July and is trying to get everything ready. The amount of missionaries that are coming in is also affecting things. We have a lot of missionaries that are waiting for visas for other missions serving in their country until the visas come.  They never know when the visas will come so that could be another reason why we are having changes so fast but we will see what happens. I really doubt that I will change. We just got here, hah, but the President said that the senior companions were going to be the ones leaving this change, so we needed to make sure that our companions knew the area. I am lucky cause, well I feel like my companion knows the area better than me, ha. We both are new and trying to get the hang of things.
We are writing really early this morning and I feel bad cause I won’t be able to see Jake’s and Maren’s letters this week until next week. Sorry Jake and Maren I pray for you both so much and I am so proud of you for the choices you are making. We had zone conference this week and we talked a lot of humility and wow, we all have pride to some degree and we all need and depend on our Father in Heaven. I am learning that I am prideful in many different ways ........one that I am trying to work on is letting the atonement work in my life. There are times that I feel like I try to take too much upon myself and feel like I have to do it alone.  I get really stressed but we have a source of strength and power of knowledge and ideas that is infinite and well all knowing and if we turn to him and let ....,let being the key word, him help us we and our ability to achieve great things becomes even bigger our potential is unlimited with him. I am working on bring the atonement in to my life daily ... one thing that Elder Holland said hit me, God is always working with imperfect servants. He has learned to deal with it. God knows me he knows my weaknesses and imperfections and knows how best to help me. But I have to open the door and invite him to do so and that is where humility is so important.  We need to ask and when we do we will receive. I have seen it and felt it. I just need to remember it so much more often.  Why are we humans so forgetful. Why must we have to learn the same lesson over and over again, hah. My poor Father in Heaven must be smiling down on me and saying ...oh Stephanie we need to relearn this again?  Let’s start from the beginning.....I am so grateful for a loving Heavenly Father who has the patience and the love to teach me and help me be better and the faith in me to see what I can become and then do everything in his power to help me become that. Why hesitate to put our hearts and lives into the hands of him who has our happiness and progress in mind. Why do we let pride rule us and stop our progression ... I don't know but I am so grateful that God has given us a way to overcome our weakness and put aside our pride and decide to become better. I am so grateful for the blessing and opportunity of repentance in my life and I am so grateful for my Savior who made it possible for me to repent. I love my Savior so much, I have never realized how much we need him before.... daily, hourly ... minute by minute, We need his grace and forgiveness and love.  I am so grateful that he gives it to us freely ......Family I know that this gospel is true. I have felt the spirit testify of it so many times. I know God loves us and the greatest demonstration of this love is his son Jesus Christ. If you want to feel God’s love, come closer to Christ and use his atonement. There is peace and forgiveness and love waiting for all who do. I love this gospel. I love being a missionary even though sometimes it is hard. hah. 
Family I am so grateful for you and love you all. Pray and read your scriptures. These will keep you close to the lord. Through small and simple things...
With all my love 
Hermana Hale 

April 22, 2013 Jacob

Hey family!!!
So the last couple of days have been better. Every morning I would wake up and have this deppressing feeling in my heart, in my gut. But the last couple of days I've noticed that its starting to wayne. That the more I'm here, the more this is home, and the more I feel the love of God, and christ in my life.
So I'm going to start off my letter with a really funnt but embarrasing story. I was at the Home of Jo Wakefields, a lovely recent convert who is the mission mom in this area, and we were having a DA (Dinner Apointment). While we were eating we got on the topic of something very spiritual. Well during this very spiritual moment I was telling the story of a girl who back at home we would call her very spastic, or a spaz. As I described her as being very spastic, forks dropped, and mouths fell out. My companion looked at me like I was a ghost, and asked me what I had just said. I repeated the word and again everyone looked at me like I was the most rude person on the planet. I asked my companion what just happened and the table quickly explained to me that the term "spastic" was a very derogatory term for someone who is crazy. I quickly learned some others words I probably shouldnt say such as crap, phanny, randy, and a couple of other terms. Dont ask what they mean, I'm a missionary, I wont tell you. Haha pretty awkward and embarrassing experience.
So the work his is still going pretty slow. We went to a DA the other night and was talking to the Marshall family, to see if they knew anyone that was interested in learning about the gospel. The mother had already left to go to another appointment, but the father said that some people in their neighborhood had commented on their family life. Such as the things they teach their children, how close they are as a family, and also their basic morals. The father said that the wife was the one who knew their names and that unfortunatly he had no idea where they lived, or their names. So me and my companion talked about it and decided to just go knock the entire neighborhood. We thought it might be smart to knock along all the streets where some members lives, just to see if anyone noticed something different about them. 
I want to tell you guys somestuff about my companion that honestly is amazing. Elder Harrison has a compacity to love beyond anyone I have ever met (except for maybe mom). I noticed he was a little up tight last night and asked what for. He then told me that sunday night was the night where he decided what he was going to write to the people back home. He is worried about them but he doesnt want that worry to  influence his work out in the field so he tries not to think about them until sunday night. He told me a story about a girl from his home word who fell about because of her boyfriend that was not a member and into somepretty bad stuff. She eventually ended up commiting suicide. I realized then how lucky I was. I worry about you guys. But not that much (although hearing about nate and the cops has gotten me a little worried). He tries to write his family, friends, YSA from his home ward, all trying to give them some insperation in their lives. To try and keep them anchored in the truth. He truly loves like christ. And its not just the people at home, but also the people here in the mission. I asked him if he ever got home sick and he said yes, but the weird thing he gets is area sick. Haha he will miss some of the areas hes served in because he loved the people there so much.  Oh and he is also a great cheff. Honestly, I have to watch how much food I eat. Well how much food im going to eat once my stomach catches up to the time here, and the schedules. Its hard to want to eat in the morning because back home is when im usually going to bed. He also is very knowledable in the scriptues. The amount of scripture stories he knows and scriptures memorized is amazing. He can give a spiritual thought to a family on a dime. I can't wait to become like that.
So guess what, Im taking on President Monsons challenge. Im tryint to memorize a scripture every day. Hopefully if I do that I can get a photographic memory by the end of my mission. So I've felt like ive written a ton and I want to go buy my english suit (people say here that I look like the new James Bond and im wondering how much the english suit is going to make that even more apparent) and I also want to go and try to talk to some other missionarys who stayed with us last night and who are in the area for the day (two missionarys stayed with us, two are coming from another area). Elder Oscerson is the distric leader and he is about This close <-------------------------------> to being translated. Seriously, everytime I talk to him, I just feel incouraged to become better in the work. Hes going to show me around and show me some museums and some old book stores. Pictures! 
I want to leave you guys with something I learned in my study this last few days. In preach my gospel there is a chapter that talks about christ like attributes and how to get them. I want to love this area, and my mission, and this area so I though become more like christ would make me better in those aspects. The first attribute they talk about is faith which is something that I feel like I never fully received. Reading in the different scriptues I eventually hit upon Alma 32. That whole chapter is the best thing ever if you want to get a basic knowledge and foundation on faith. It can tell you how to get it and what is is, as well as other insights. The thing that I pulled from it was this. Faith is like a seed inside of you. Having the desire to have faith is that basic seed. Now I've always been told that if you nourish it, it will grow, but I always thought that when I got it that it would be a big spiritual revelation. But the more i read the more I realized why they used the allusion of a seed that will eventually grow to become a seed. IT TAKES TIME. It takes trials and obedience, and light, and nourishment. A seed grows to become a sappling. And during is growth it experiences storms, and bugs, and winds, and snow and everything. but it only makes it stronger. I always thought that as a missionary my faith in Christ, and what im doing, would just come to me. But I've realized that its going to take time and obedience to the lords commandments. 100% obedience mind you. But eventually in maybe a month, or two months, or a year, or maybe two years, Ill right you, and you wont recognize me. Ill be wrapped in the love that is having faith and hope in christ. But Ill go into hope next letter, cause that blew my mind as well.
I love you guys so much, Caleb I need to tell you that I wear your Pocket Watch you gave me every day and that I get comments on it. Thank you for caring enough, and thinking enough about me to get me such a thoughtfull gift. I miss you, and I want to give you a challenge to nourish your seed. And to read a chapter in the book of mormon every day. Can you do that for me? Can you write me a letter every week, or month, or six or whatever to tell me what you've learned from reading? I know that if you do that then you can be able to have the tree of life grow with in you and then you can go out into the field and life without having the hard struggles I'm having. Nate..... Really? Seriously? I ran into the cops three times my entire highschool year and you've somehow managed to have three before then end of your sophomore year. Issac. Your a stud, develop all the talents you have. Sing out loud and you should probably learn how to play futball, so when I get back we can play. Ill be the keeper. Thats all im good at. Simeon. I have not forgotten the promise to take you to Disneyland. ;) Ill take you right when I get back. If I can get the money. Tania. Your awesome. I see a lot of qualities in you that I see from senior missionarys out in the field. I should have listened to you more and learned more from you. Mom and Dad, Thanks for the letters. It was nice to read them and learn from them. Ill try to forget myself and go to work.  Maren and Stephanie. I love you guys. I need Stephs address so that I can send her a letter from england. Your gonna love the stamps. Maren I send off your letter today. It should arrive in about a week. Its fun to receive actual written letters out in the field. I love you guys, if you get the chance tell Josh that he is in for a ride. Buckel UP. Chears! Till next week.
P.S.
 You all should send me emails. ;)



On our way back from contacting for the first time in Piccadilly station.

Elder Hale's Flat (His apartment is above the store fronts)
Elder Oleson
Picture from the MTC

Opening a large chocolate egg.
MTC bunkees (companion Elder Allred)





Tuesday, April 16, 2013

April 15th 2013 Stephanie



                                                                   April 15th 2013

Dear family 

   WOW, a monumental week. The Hale family has 3 missionaries out in the field at the same time!!!! Jake how are you doing? How is England? I am so jealous that you are there!!! Have a blast and learn tons and take lots of pictures. You only have two years on a mission and your whole life to look back on it.
Maren I hope your health is better. It’s the worse being sick in the mission field. I don’t even know what you have but I am praying for you and I know god is watching over you.
So this week, I am not going to lie, was kind of hard. Being in a new area and opening that area is hard. We have been walking the same streets over and over again trying to find someone to listen to us and we have been praying to find a family to teach. Our area is so small!!!! My companion is from Guatemala and she is so short. Hah!! I feel huge next to her. I’ll try and send a picture. Oh, but story really fast. So flippin cool, we had the coolest experience....so Hermana Massina and her companion contacted a director of a school in our area and get this she wanted us to come to her school and teach the children the gospel!!!! Wow right. Apparently, they are having lots of problems in the school. So we went with our zone and wow so much fun. We got to use Mormon messages. We talked about seeds and how they have such potential to grow into something big and then related it to them. How they have so much potential and if they let God help them, they can achieve lots more!! It was so much fun. We played a game and then related it to the message. Our age group was 15 year olds and it was incredible how much they were paying attention. We got a lot of references. The director was so happy but she wanted us to come back and well ....practically call them to repentance with terror and fear, because we gave a lesson of the love of God for each of them. But she wanted us to teach them that is was wrong to steal and to be disrespectful and to not fight, drink and smoke. So we will see if the President will let us go back and we will see what we will teach if we do. It was an amazing experience one I will never forget. I love teaching the young people today because they are so ready to hear the gospel.
   We also had a baptism this week. We baptized a family Hermana Massina taught and we got here and our job was to baptize them. Man it was a scary time because we were suppose to start at 7:00 and well we ended up waiting almost an hour for Rudy the father of the family to get there. We baptized him and his son and we are working with the mom now. They are a really great family but wow I am learning patience with them. They have 3 kids and well to put it nicely, I have never seen more disobedient children in my life. We go and help them get ready for the baptism and for church and it literally takes an hour and half to get out the door. Once we do one of the kids is throwing a tantrum and we can’t leave. Wow, sorry I am not complaining. This family really is amazing they have been being taught by the missionaries for a long time and finally they were baptized!!!! I got to hear the father’s testimony too and wow that was amazing.
    Oh and we have been trying to find people and we contacted a man on the street one day and he didn’t seam really interested but he invited us back to his house. On Sunday, we went to visit him and when we got there he seemed a little annoyed at the first but as we started to teach him I could see a change. It was so incredible. The spirit came so strong and I was able to testify of well you guys about our family and well I started to cry no surprise there, ( hope you all know how much I love you all family grandparents aunts uncle the whole crew ) but the spirit came so strong and he started to ask simple questions. He was accepting the answers and he even asked the question why are there so many churches?  We were like sweet. Let us tell you of a boy who had the same question and ah it was so perfect. At the end he took the pamphlet in his hands and said thank you the message was ....well bonita or pretty in English. I wanted to shout and say yes it is pretty and true. It shows the love of our God and you can have so much peace and joy in your life if you will work to know that it is true. He said he would pray and I told him that we had a movie of the first vision and that we were going to pass by and give it to him to watch with his family. Ha I walked out of the lesson thinking oh shoot I don’t have a movie to give him hah ......but don’t worry I found one now so we are good.
    I love seeing the understanding come into the faces of the people. I love being a missionary. This last week was hard but I am so grateful for the things I have learned through it. I have never prayed more. I have never worked harder to find a new person to teach. After that lesson I was like already planning his baptism I was so excited. Hah my companion thought I was crazy.
    Well family I don’t have much time. Know that I love you tons. Read this scripture if you get time. I am learning about humility and wow it’s so good. D&C 67:10. We have the promise that we can come to know god!!! How cool is that. In the scriptures it also says that this is life eternal that they may know the one true god. ....I don’t know I really liked it. Family this gospel is true!!! I have felt the spirit testify to me so many times in every lesson I give. I am coming to have a greater love for my Savoir and redeemer. His atonement is infinite and eternal; it can reach anyone at anytime if we come to him and ask for his help. I loved what Elder Holland said that if we are facing a trail of faith that we need to hold on to what we already know until further knowledge will come. I felt like I learned that lesson this week. God teaches us through trials. Many times it’s the only way we learn. Try and find what it is that God wants us to learn.  The faster you learn it the less you have to be in the trial. Hah. I love you all and pray for you all. I am so amazed that we have 3 missionaries out now. I hope you all can feel the blessings ....I saw the picture of Disneyland and wow people and changed so much!!! Stop it all. You all don’t grow any more. Hah Nate looks like you have put on weight congrats!! aha 
   I’ll try and send pictures.
 Love Hermana Hale 




April 15th 2913 Maren

Hey Family!

O man... I have so many people I want to write and not much time. I will do my best. Don't worry, you are first on the priority list.

First order of business.... I finally went to the doctor today. I am okay. Actually I am 100% healthy from what they could tell from their exam. They said if anything it sounds like Cold Induced Athsma. They prescribed me an inhaler and some allergy medicine. I should be good. They want to see me in two weeks just to make sure nothing is worse, when they listened to me breath they couldn't even hear a wheeze so I think I am okay.

Secondly, we got a call from our mission president this morning at about 10:00. My companion answered not knowing who it was, talked for a while, about 15 second in I realized that this was no normal phone call. She was surprised by a lot of what was being said (I didn't know who was on the phone at this point). After about 3 minutes she says "okay, she's right here," and precedes to hand me the phone. I kinda mouth "What is going on?!" and all she says back to me is "A lot." So I say hello and hear the mission presidents voice on the other end. At this point I am thinking that Sister Madsen has been called to train someone new and I am being transferred. Come to find out... I was kinda right, except for the transfer part. He told me that we would need to be at the mission office tomorrow at 10:00 to meet... our new companion, she is coming from the MTC early because she already knows the language. He said that S Madsen will train both of us for the next 4 weeks and then when she leaves I will finish training her. HOLY COW! I am a trainer! Me and sister madsen have decided that to make things easier on all of us I will just begin training S Peacock (that is her name) as soon as she gets here and she will basically train me on how to train. That way it will be less of a role switch when she leaves. 

From day 1 S Madsen has given me a little bit of a hard time, saying that she bet I would train right after I was done training... I told her she was crazy... I guess not.

I am so humbled by this. I am scared and excited and nervous, humbled and well... shocked. I didn't expect this. I just hope that I can inspire in her the same things that S. Madsen has inspired in me. She always told me that I could work miracles with my faith, the faith of a greenie. I want her to feel the same way, like she really can do anything and Angels will bear her up. 

Its is going to be an interesting few days. Lots of changes. Pray for me.

Other than that our week was pretty boring. We had a lot of appointments set but when we got there no one was there. It is super frustrating but we have built some really strong relationships with some of the members and they are starting to produce referrals and opportunities to serve. 

I love the members. This weekend we are having a bit culture night and we, me and my companion, have been adopted as honorary Honduranians (?). Basically that means we get to carry in their flag. Should be lots of fun.

Along with that, this week we talked to the branch about starting a consistent community activity at the church every month. As me and sister Madsen thought about better ways to find people we came up with this vision of there being a fun, family friendly activity every third weekend (or something like that) at the church so that the community would start to see us as a part of them. We presented it to the Branch in correlation meeting and they liked the idea. The key now will be setting everything up so it will run smoothly no matter which missionaries are here. Next month we are planning on a game night. We hope to start advertising at the culture night. I am excited to see where this could go. A lot of getting this up and running is going to fall on me, me and my new companion. Pray for us and that we will be able to get the support from everyone that we need to to really make it worth while.
Sorry. I know this is shorter than usual. 

Family. I am humbled every day at how blessed I am to have been born into this gospel, to parents who have been sealed in the temple and who raised me with gospel principles. I marvel at how blessed I am. How did I get so lucky? Why me? All I know is this. I have been so blessed and so I have a great responsibility to share it with the world. I have a responsibility to give everyone else that chance to be blessed by the Gospel in their life. Its a huge responsibility but I am so grateful for the chance.

I love you all!

Love,

Hermana Maren Hale

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

April 8th 2013 Maren

Hey Family!

How are you all? First of all, I am so sorry to make you all so worried. I really am OKAY! I promise. I haven't been able to see a doctor yet, I had an appointment but when I got there they wouldn't take UnitedHealth care even though they're on the provider list for the missionary health insurance... very frustrating... I'll find a different doctor... their service was horrible anyways. 

As for what is wrong with me. Like I said before I just go into coughing fits. Nothing super bad just annoying enough to check out. I'll keep you updated.

This week was weird... it started out really cool with some awesome appointments. We taught two people on Monday night and had really good experiences with both. The first one was to a woman named Olga, she is a really awesome lady, she lives above a less active and so the missionaries talked to her a while back while they were trying to find the less active. I guess she got lost when transfers happened and no one ever came back... but we did :D and we had an awesome lesson. We used the pamphlets and were able to keep it relatively short. She committed to read and pray about everything and said something along the lines of "I just need time to get to where you are..." Like she could already see that the church is different in some way she would just need time to figure out exactly how. It was a "WOW" moment. Unfortunately we haven't been able to get a hold of her since then. :( We'll keep trying though. Next step is to try and just stop by right? Haha.

Later that night we taught Santos. I can't remember if I've ever mentioned Santos but we knocked into him one of my first weeks here. He seemed prepared from that first meeting... we didn't see him for a few weeks because he found work but we stopped by one night and were able to teach him and had an amazing lesson. It was interesting because as we had planned for him the week before we had felt an overwhelming feeling that he was more ready than we realized and God wanted to move things along with him. A few days later we went back and invited him to be baptized. He didn't say yes but he said he would pray about it. He missed our next appointment with him, he was at work again, so we'll be trying to stop by again soon. Things are going to get hard out here as soon as the work season starts, everyone is going to be busy all the time... getting Sunday's off is going to be even harder. But God prepares the way for people to keep his commandments, I have faith that the work will still move forward.

On Thursday me and my companion both woke up feeling just a little under the weather. I immediately took all the vitamin's mom sent with me but we weren't very effective all day, the next morning I woke up and felt perfect... my companion felt like she'd been hit by a truck though... so we didn't go anywhere. There is a part of me that wonders if that was God's way of telling her that she needed to rest physically and me that I needed to rest emotionally and spiritually... It was nice to have a day not stressing that our planners weren't 100% full all the time. I think I needed it. 

General Conference was AMAZING! Every talk was amazingly personal. I loved all the talks on families, it makes me love my major that much more. I love you guys. I think one of my favorite lines was when someone said something along the lines of "People blame their bad parenting on there being no "parenting school," I've got news for you... there is one... its called the HOME!" I love it! Its so true. When we have good examples of good parenting and of family values and unity we carry that with us when we start families of our own. I guess what I am trying to say is thanks Mom and Dad for being excellent teachers in our Parenting School.

Another part that I absolutely loved was President Eyring's talk. He said one line that was something like "As we leave our families to do the Lord's work and be on his errand and draw near unto him, he will draw near unto our families." It was just another witness to me that my family is being taken care of. 

There were so many strong themes this conference. It makes me a little worried for what is to come. Satan has already been attacking the family... what new tactic is he going to use? Its a war, its going to intensify... again. I am so grateful for our generals, our prophets who warn us and lead us and guide us to safety. In the end Satan will lose... that much is certain, We will be victories if we hold to what we have been taught and listen to the counsel of the prophets. 

Another theme was obedience. This is something me and my companion have been striving to improve on, not that we not obedient we've just been paying more attention so that we can be exactly obedient. We're getting a little better everyday. I would hate to hold one of our investigators back simply because I cannot be obedient. 

On Sunday we had someone show up to watch conference that we were not expecting. She is the friend of one of the members who recently had a baby, she wasn't quite ready with everything a new baby needs, clothes, bottles, etc. and many members of the branch stepped up and helped out, donating their baby girl clothes that their girls had outgrown. We have been visiting her ever since but still haven't taught her. We gave her an invitation to conference though... and she came! When she walked in I did a double take. I didn't recognize her at first because I honestly didn't think she would come! But I was so happy! She had brought her adorable two little boys with her too, one who is 7 and one who is 4 or 5. In between sessions the boys wanted to go home... they were bored but it sounded like Elisa wanted to stay... so... I took the boys to the nursery for some good play time to get their wiggle out (don't worry mom came too so it wasn't against the rules). The only problem was we couldn't get the cabinets with the toys in them open so all we had to play with were 2 basketballs. I started out playing rolly-polly with the younger boy, then the older boy joined in and then we played keep away with my companion. It was Sooo good to hear the laughter of little boys. It reminded me so much of my little brothers (I miss you guys). Then that turned into red light, green light, and then hide and seek, and then they ran a few races, and then we played Simon Says. We still had about 30 minutes left and I was out of games! But we had some major fun together and I think Elisa was grateful. I certainly had fun! Haha.

Then that night we went to one of our investigators houses to start a Family Home Evening with them. They are such an awesome family. We met the older daughter for the first time and she is so cool! Long story short we had a SHORT lesson and then played Pictionary and they had so much fun! Again, the laughter that filled that home made me think of you guys and all the family home evenings over the years. People ask me all the time what my favorite memory is and I always respond that any moment where we were all laughing as a family is my favorite, they are the sweetest. I think the whole family had a good time and are excited to do it again next week. It really is an inspired program, we may get to teach this whole family yet. :D

I am so grateful for my family. I have already talked you guys up quite a lot in this letter but I am going to do it again. On the mission you hear lots of stories about people and their backgrounds, all different kinds of families too. Everyday I am grateful for mine. I have two parents that love each other and honor the covenants they have made in the temple. I have two big sisters who have always set really good examples for me and walked a path that I can follow, not having to worry where its going to lead. I can follow in their footsteps with confidence and have my whole life. They are my heroes and my best friends. I have five younger brothers who teach me new things everyday. They keep me laughing and help me learn patience. They have given me good advice and help me want to be the best I can to set a good example for them. I love the love that I can feel at home and know that no matter what is happening in my life or how far away I am there is a place that I belong. 

I love you guys. 

Love, 

Hermana Maren Hale

P.S. Pictures!

 1. The adorable little girl we went to the aquarium with last week.
2. A beautiful butterfly that we saw at the aquarium  The whole room was just full of beautiful butterflies like this one.
3. Another awesome boy in the ward, his mom took us to lunch on Saturday afternoon. He is also very cute.
4. An amazing sunset we captured Saturday night at a DA. Really the picture doesn't do it justice at all... it was the most beautiful sight I've ever seen... so surreal.


... sorry I don't send pictures of me... I think its a side effect of being a photographer. 1 you don't really take pictures of yourself and 2... you don't really like pictures of yourself... that is why you are always the one holding the camera (you thought I just liked to take pictures, really its my evil plan so I'm never in them. haha.)